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		<title>Put Your Willie Away</title>
		<link>http://todayswindsor.com/blog/?p=316</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Feb 2010 13:48:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bevin Palmateer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hey there fine folks of Wiarton, cold enough for ya?  Sorry, redundant question, it is February in Wiarton after all.  That’s it isn’t it?  It’s cold, and the best way to lift your spirits is with, well, with spirits.  “Let’s turn it into a festival!  Then we could get grant money, write some stuff off [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey there fine folks of Wiarton, cold enough for ya?  Sorry, redundant question, it is February in Wiarton after all.  That’s it isn’t it?  It’s cold, and the best way to lift your spirits is with, well, with spirits.  “Let’s turn it into a festival!  Then we could get grant money, write some stuff off and get more spirits!”  Hats off to the crew that came up with that idea, it’s brilliant, there is just one problem … we don’t really need Willie himself anymore.</p>
<p>Willie has been a great help over the past however many years, but in this day and age of information technology and never ending consumer consumption, we really don’t need the albino rodent’s prognostication (“Six more weeks of winter, or early spring.”)</p>
<p>To find out what the weather is really going to be like all I have to do is visit any neighborhood Canadian Tire or Home Depot.  Sure it may be February but the selection of snow-blowers is almost gone.  Hey, but check out that shinny new lawn tractor.  Wow!  Just what I need … in February.</p>
<p>Willie, whatever it was you said it would be this year, staying winter-like until the 16th of March, or spring arriving – as usual – on the 20<sup>th</sup> – 21<sup>st</sup>, its information we can pick up at any area Walmart.  Hey, that’s it!  How about a “Wiarton Walmart” festival?  Do they have one up there?</p>
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		<title>Wednesday&#8217;s Wishes!</title>
		<link>http://todayswindsor.com/blog/?p=314</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Feb 2010 18:24:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Houida Kassem</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[General]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Share your wish with us and we may surprise you and grant that wish for one of our Wednesday&#8217;s Wishes Segments of the show.
The wish could be for yourself or for someone else you know.  Just post a brief explanation as to what your wish is and why you want it and you may be [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Share your wish with us and we may surprise you and grant that wish for one of our Wednesday&#8217;s Wishes Segments of the show.</p>
<p>The wish could be for yourself or for someone else you know.  Just post a brief explanation as to what your wish is and why you want it and you may be a lucky winner!</p>
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		<title>Paying it Forward!</title>
		<link>http://todayswindsor.com/blog/?p=312</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Feb 2010 04:29:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Houida Kassem</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yesterday I decided it would be a nice thing to do to “Pay It Forward” so I paid for the green tea of the gentleman in the car behind me at Tim Horton’s.  I know it really isn&#8217;t much but I thought it would be a nice start to someone elses day. So I got [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yesterday I decided it would be a nice thing to do to “Pay It Forward” so I paid for the green tea of the gentleman in the car behind me at Tim Horton’s.  I know it really isn&#8217;t much but I thought it would be a nice start to someone elses day. So I got to thinking, how often do we &#8220;pay it forward&#8221; with others?</p>
<p>Share a “pay it forward” moment and maybe we’ll reward you with something too!!</p>
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		<title>Monopoly!  Windsor Falls to 10th</title>
		<link>http://todayswindsor.com/blog/?p=306</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Jan 2010 19:57:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bevin Palmateer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hasbro is launching a nation wide vote to find our nation&#8217;s 22 favourite cities that will be included on the new MONOPOLY Canada game board!
Beginning January 11, 2010 at midnight ET, MONOPOLY fans can visit www.monopolyvote.ca to cast votes for their favourite Canadian cities to help create a new MONOPOLY Canada game board. 65 great [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hasbro is launching a nation wide vote to find our nation&#8217;s 22 favourite cities that will be included on the new MONOPOLY Canada game board!<br/><br/></p>
<p>Beginning January 11, 2010 at midnight ET, MONOPOLY fans can visit <a href="http://www.monopolyvote.ca" target="_blank">www.monopolyvote.ca</a> to cast votes for their favourite Canadian cities to help create a new MONOPOLY Canada game board. 65 great Canadian cities have been pre-selected for the top 20 city vote and Canadians are invited to cast their ballots for 3 of these great cities each day of the vote, which will be open until February 7, 2010. The city that receives the most votes will be placed on the highest rent property traditionally held by Boardwalk.<br/><br/></p>
<p>The 20 cities that receive the most votes will be part of MONOPOLY history as the first cities selected to be on the Canadian game board through a consumer vote. However, two spaces on the board will be reserved for cities that are nominated through a wild card vote, which means any city in Canada can be nominated for these property spaces. Once the top 20 city vote is complete, the top 10 nominated wild card cities will also be put to a vote and the wild card winners will occupy the low-rent property spaces traditionally held by Mediterranean Avenue and Baltic Avenue.</p>
<p>The wild card vote will take place from February 8, 2010 until February 21, 2010. </p>
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		<title>Tee it Up!</title>
		<link>http://todayswindsor.com/blog/?p=303</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jan 2010 05:35:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bevin Palmateer</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[General]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[The long cold winter … is over!  After a few weeks of rest the PGA Tour season kicks off Thursday in Hawaii.  This year, it’s a cold start to the new campaign.  The inaugural 2010 event is for 2009 winners only.  However, the biggest names won’t be there.  Phil Michelson is not showing up, and [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The long cold winter … is over!  After a few weeks of rest the PGA Tour season kicks off Thursday in Hawaii.  This year, it’s a cold start to the new campaign.  The inaugural 2010 event is for 2009 winners only.  However, the biggest names won’t be there.  Phil Michelson is not showing up, and many of the sports superstars didn’t win last year.  Of course the games biggest draw is still recovering from a bad drive.<br/><br/></p>
<p>Canada’s Mike Weir didn’t qualify for the SBS Championship on the Plantation Course at Kapalua.  But he could have.  Weir finished 2<sup>nd</sup> to Dustin Johnson at the AT&amp;T Pebble Beach National Pro-Am, where the final round was cancelled due to weather, eliminating his shot at a spot in the season opening event.  The good news is this years US Open is at Pebble, go Mike go.<br/><br/></p>
<p>Canada’s Stephen Ames won the final regular event of the 2009 season, the Children’s Miracle Network Classic, and will carry Canada’s hopes in Hawaii.<br/><br/></p>
<p>Let’s face it, all anyone is really talking about in golf circles is you know who.  In the past decade he elevated the sports popularity – as both a game to play, and a game to watch – to levels never believed possible twenty years ago.  The Athlete of the Decade will come back and chances are that the roars will be stronger than ever.</p>
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		<title>Poll of the Day</title>
		<link>http://todayswindsor.com/blog/?p=301</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jan 2010 08:12:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bevin Palmateer</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[General]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Do you agree with the new increased traffic fines implemented by the Provincial Liberals?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Will Eddie seek another term?</p>
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		<title>Teeing-off on Tiger</title>
		<link>http://todayswindsor.com/blog/?p=296</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Nov 2009 14:37:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bevin Palmateer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The on-line rumor-mill is working overtime on Tiger Woods ...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The on-line rumor-mill is working overtime on Tiger Woods.  His car crash on the weekend has brought speculation that an affair with a 34-year-old nightclub promoter Rachel Uchitel may have some merit.  It has also sparked a flood of double-entendre jokes:</p>
<p><strong>Tiger Woods is so rich that he owns lots of expensive cars. Now he has a hole in one.</strong></p>
<p>What&#8217;s the difference between a car and a golf ball? Tiger can drive a ball 400 yards.</p>
<p><strong>Tiger Woods wasn&#8217;t seriously injured in the crash, but he&#8217;s still below par. </strong></p>
<p>What were Tiger Woods and his wife doing out at 2.30 in the morning? They went clubbing</p>
<p><strong>Tiger Woods crashed into a fire hydrant and a tree. He couldn’t decide between a wood and an iron.</strong></p>
<p>As for Rachel Uchitel, she first hit the headlines during the 9/11 attacks.  She was photographed in a distraught state searching for her fiancé, who had been working in the south tower of the World Trade Centre when it was hit by a plane.</p>
<p>She has been linked to many married celebrities, but says she will never kiss-and-tell.  Step-aside John and Kate …</p>
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		<title>Capital Punishment: Are you For It or Against It?</title>
		<link>http://todayswindsor.com/blog/?p=281</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Oct 2009 20:02:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Houida Kassem</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[General]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[On today&#8217;s show, Bevin and I discussed briefly capital punishment.  On our facebook group there was quite the heated discussion between people for and against capital punishment which made me want to write a blog and hear what everyone had to say about this topic.
If you watched our segment, you would find out that I [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>On today&#8217;s show, Bevin and I discussed briefly capital punishment.  On our <span style="text-decoration: line-through;">facebook</span> group there was quite the heated discussion between people for and against capital punishment which made me want to write a blog and hear what everyone had to say about this topic.</p>
<p>If you watched our segment, you would find out that I am totally FOR capital punishment. Some of you may disagree with me and that&#8217;s ok.  I&#8217;d like to hear your views.  Are you for it or are you against it?</p>
<p>For me, at one point, I suppose you could have called me a fence sitter.  I was neither for it or against it.  I was indifferent I suppose but on May 5th, 2006 my friend Shelley Atkinson&#8217;s husband, Constable John Atkinson was shot and killed in the line of duty here in Windsor.  I no longer was a fence sitter anymore. </p>
<p>As I sat through the trial of his killer with Shelley and her family all I could think of was how unfair life really is. How Shelley would no longer have her husband and best friend any more and Mitchel and Nicole would never have their daddy by their side.  I was all of ten feet away from Nicholas Brennan, the man who shot and killed John and destroyed the lives of his family, friends, collegues and all the people who loved him. There was not one part of me that thought, &#8220;I wonder if he can be rehabilitated&#8221; or &#8220;we should be lenient on him&#8221;.  All I thought was &#8220;why should you continue to live when you never gave John that chance&#8221;. It was hard not to want to lounge over the bench and pummel this man and I, for those who don&#8217;t know me, am not a violent person.  Yet every part of me wished him harm and every part of me hurt for my friend. I have never loathed someone so much as I loathed this man, a man who I would otherwise would never have met.</p>
<p>As far as I was concerned&#8230;the moment he chose to pull that trigger and end John&#8217;s life, was the moment that I feel he no longer should have that right to breath.</p>
<p>Granted, I am emotional about this and it does hit too close to home for me to have a more balanced opinion on this. I understand that my emotions have got the better of me and I can&#8217;t see past the anger and resentment I feel for Nicholas Brennan.    Still having said all of that, I am more and more convinced that we are far too lenient on criminals.</p>
<p>I know to some an &#8220;eye for an eye&#8221; may sound barbaric in this day and age but the crimes that these criminals partake in are also barbaric and can not and should not go unpunished.</p>
<p>Will it bring back John if Nicholas Brennan was no longer a part of the human race?? We all know that answer. Will it bring comfort to the people who loved him and miss him terribly that Nicholas Brennan is gone?? Maybe it will. I don&#8217;t know.  What I do know is that my friend and her kids will never see him walk through the door again.  And while they lay their heads to rest each night they will lay there knowing their hero, their protector is no longer there while the man who stole their dreams still gets to live and we get to pay for him to live, eat, sleeep also knowing that he may possibly be allowed to walk free at 35, roughly the age John was when he took his life.</p>
<p>I make no appologies for what I am about to say&#8230;Capital Punishment: For or Against?? I&#8217;ll quote a line from one of the people who posted on our facebook page. </p>
<p> Darren and Brad wrote: &#8220;Flick the switch&#8221; and &#8220;Fry Em&#8221;&#8230;&#8230;.I think that about sums it up!</p>
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		<title>What makes YOU happy?</title>
		<link>http://todayswindsor.com/blog/?p=278</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Sep 2009 20:12:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Houida Kassem</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In this day and age where there is so much doom and gloom, I wanted to hear something positive and something happy instead.
Today&#8217;s blog is simple. I want to know what makes you happy? Does getting a raise at work make you happy? What about hearing someone you love say &#8220;I love you&#8221;? What does [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this day and age where there is so much doom and gloom, I wanted to hear something positive and something happy instead.</p>
<p>Today&#8217;s blog is simple. I want to know what makes you happy? Does getting a raise at work make you happy? What about hearing someone you love say &#8220;I love you&#8221;? What does it for you?</p>
<p>I would love to hear your stories so please share them with us!</p>
<p>Thanks</p>
<p>Houida</p>
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		<title>President Obama Calls Kanye West A Jackass</title>
		<link>http://todayswindsor.com/blog/?p=259</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Sep 2009 12:25:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Houida Kassem</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Actually Video from CNN of President Obama calling Kanye West a "jackass"]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It appears as though many people thought Kanye West was a jackass for what he did to Taylor Swift at the MTV music awards including President Obama.</p>
<p>The President called the West &#8220;a jackass&#8221; in an off-the-record comment during a CNBC interview.</p>
<p>Sunday night at the MTV Video Music Awards, the rapper jumped on stage during Taylor Swift&#8217;s acceptance speech and declared her award should have gone to Beyoncé Knowles.</p>
<p>West appeared on Jay Leno apologizing and saying &#8220;It was rude, period&#8230;.I&#8217;m just ashamed that my hurt caused someone else&#8217;s hurt.&#8221; He went on to say, &#8220;I need to, after this, take some time off and just analyze how I&#8217;m going to make it through the rest of this life, how I&#8217;m going to improve.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>Hole-in-One?</title>
		<link>http://todayswindsor.com/blog/?p=257</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Sep 2009 03:42:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bevin Palmateer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I got a call from an old golfing buddy, I’ll call him Robert (real name Bob), saying that he scored his first ever hole-in-one.  I was very happy for him, and a little bit jealous.  That is, until I heard the details.  (If you’ve ever talked to a “golfer” before, then you know there will [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I got a call from an old golfing buddy, I’ll call him Robert (real name Bob), saying that he scored his first ever hole-in-one.  I was very happy for him, and a little bit jealous.  That is, until I heard the details.  (If you’ve ever talked to a “golfer” before, then you know there will always be details to follow.)  In Bob’s – ah, Robert’s – case, his hole-in-one came on an executive par 3 course.  An executive par 3 course, for you none golfers, is like the value menu at Burger King; can’t handle the Whopper, then just get the Jr.  The average par 3 hole on a regular golf course is anywhere from 150 to 200 yards.  On an executive course the holes are much shorter.  His “ace” (golf lingo for hole-in-one) came on a 73 yard hole.  In my books, this doesn’t count.  Sure it was one swing of the club, but it wasn’t even a full swing, more of a chip-shot.  I believe, for a hole-in-one to “count”, it has to be on a hole of at least 150 yards.  (For women, 125 yards.  That is not sexist, just look at any golf course score card and it will be explained.)  If you’re wondering why this even matters, then you are not a golfer.  You see, to a golfer, an “ace” is a highly sought after, long anticipated, seldom realized, life altering occurrence.  When you have a hole-in-one, you have it for life.  I’ve been playing for 30 years and have only come close once; half an inch.  Owning a hole-in-one provides you with exclusive membership into an elusive club.  That is, the right to say, you have one.  I don’t think he has that right.  But I’ll still let him buy me a beer.  What do you think?</p>
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		<title>&#8220;I do&#8221;&#8230;but only if you get me the right ring!</title>
		<link>http://todayswindsor.com/blog/?p=255</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2009 04:43:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Houida Kassem</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[On today&#8217;s show, we spoke about a friend of mine who was anticipating a proposal from her boyfriend of 7 years but she was concerned that he would not give her the ring she wanted. She actually said she would accept his proposal but if the ring wasn&#8217;t a &#8220;princess cut&#8221; diamond ring, she would [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>On today&#8217;s show, we spoke about a friend of mine who was anticipating a proposal from her boyfriend of 7 years but she was concerned that he would not give her the ring she wanted. She actually said she would accept his proposal but if the ring wasn&#8217;t a &#8220;princess cut&#8221; diamond ring, she would tell him she wanted another one.</p>
<p>My jaw is still on the ground and I am honestly trying so very hard to pick it up right now but am having a hard time doing that.</p>
<p>So here&#8217;s my question to all you ladies out there.</p>
<p>Is this something that is common place?? Do women really do this? Have you done this?</p>
<p>Am I missing something here? Does the ring matter more than the proposal itself? I understand that one may have a preference over one type of ring versus another but seriously, if it&#8217;s not what you want do you tell him as he&#8217;s down on bended knee, &#8220;I love you too honey and yes I&#8217;ll marry you but not until you get me the ring I want&#8221;</p>
<p>Help me out here! Am I wrong in telling my girlfriend that her behaviour is just over the top shallow?</p>
<p>I would love to get some feed back on this one!</p>
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		<title>We all failed to save Jaycee Lee Dugard</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Aug 2009 19:12:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Houida Kassem</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Can you image leaving school on a nice day and standing outside of a bus stop when all of a sudden a vehicle approaches and a man grabs you, throws you into his car and takes off, leaving your step father trying to save you on his bicycle?  Imagine if that was the last [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Can you image leaving school on a nice day and standing outside of a bus stop when all of a sudden a vehicle approaches and a man grabs you, throws you into his car and takes off, leaving your step father trying to save you on his bicycle?  Imagine if that was the last memory you had of a place you once knew, of people you once loved and of a life you once had.  Now picture yourself 11 years old when this nightmare began. Now imagine that nightmare finally ending, 18 years later!! </p>
<p>Jaycee Lee Dugard was trapped in an nightmare for almost two decades and no one was able to save her from the horrors she had to endure any sooner. Almost two decades??? How is it possible that no one saw the signs and no one suspected anything? I will not listen any more to apologies from law enforcement officials or neighbours or anyone for that matter saying they did their best.  Are you kidding me? An 11 year old little girl is kidnapped, held captive, raped, gives birth to two children fathered by her alleged captor, lives in conditions most of us could not fathom and some officials are saying they did their best?? Tell that to Jaycee Lee Dugard and her family and tell that to her step father who was under suspicion for kidnapping her that horrible day.  </p>
<p>I know people make mistakes and law enforcement officials and departments are no stranger to mistakes as we all are. I do not fault them entirely for what happened to Jaycee nor do I fault the community she lived in entirely.  I do, however, fault our judicial system that let a man walk freely when he had already been convicted of kidnapping in 1976 and convicted of rape in 1988.  What more do we need to put someone like that away? How did neighbours not see the signs and insist on doing something about it? How did law enforcement departments not monitor him more effectively, how did his parole officers not know something was going on, how did her alleged captor&#8217;s wife allow him to do the things he did to this little girl and not do something to stop it and most importantly how did we all fail to protect and save Jaycee Lee? </p>
<p>We are all at fault here.  Each and everyone of us in some small way failed to protect her. How many times have we all been at a mall and watched a child scream as a parent dragged them off.  Can you be certain that the person dragging them away was their parent? How many times have we looked at our neighbours behaviours and thought to ourselves, they&#8217;re just odd or it&#8217;s none of my business? How many times have you turned a blind eye to things because you&#8217;d just rather not get involved?? For almost two decades numerous people inadvertently turned a blind eye to Jaycee Lee. </p>
<p>I know many of you may think differently than me but this case also brings up the way in which we punish criminals.  We are far to lenient in our society. We don&#8217;t punish criminals severely enough or long enough for the crimes they have been convicted for. A woman I spoke to yesterday said &#8220;it&#8217;s a crying shame what happened to that little girl&#8221;.  No. No. No.  It is <strong>not</strong> a crying shame. It is a tragedy! A tragedy that could have been avoided in my opinion.  This should never have happened and gone unnoticed for 18 years.</p>
<p>Until we start punishing convicted felons accordingly, we will fail to protect and save others who could end up being victimized because we, as a society let someone like Phillip Garrido, the man now being charged with her abduction and rape, free. In my opinion, that man should never have had the luxury to walk freely among us after being convicted on charges of rape and kidnapping years before. </p>
<p>Not a day has gone by since Jaycee Lee was found that I don&#8217;t think of how the rest of her life will forever be altered.  She will never have a normal life after having gone through what she has for all those years. She was even quoted as saying that she felt bad for bonding with her captor. How sad that she, the victim, feels bad. </p>
<p>As a mother, I can&#8217;t help but cry for her, for her family,for the people who know and love her and for us, as society who must demand changes to ensure that this does not happen again. We owe it to ourselves, to our children and to our community.  We owe it to Jaycee Lee..</p>
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		<title>Video Buzz: Text Messaging While Driving</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Aug 2009 17:09:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Houida Kassem</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[What a powerful message this video has about text messaging while driving.  Warning: it is of a very graphic nature. Discretion is advised.

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		<title>What young kids think about adoption</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Aug 2009 15:03:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bevin Palmateer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Adopted kids are black.  Straight up, that’s what children think.  I feel at liberty to say this because my wife and I are currently in the adoption process, a domestic adoption, and our young son has been telling his friends about it.  (All of his friends are between the ages of 4 and 8.)  He [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Adopted kids are black.  Straight up, that’s what children think.  I feel at liberty to say this because my wife and I are currently in the adoption process, a domestic adoption, and our young son has been telling his friends about it.  (All of his friends are between the ages of 4 and 8.)  He told a 7 year old buddy of his that he was going to be a big brother “I’m getting a brother, but he isn’t ‘borned’ to us.”  The friend’s first response was “Is he black?”  This same question followed from some of his other pals but in slightly varying terms “Does he have dark skin?”  When my son finally had the chance to tell his “best” friend about the new family dynamic, the statement came out like this; “I’m going to be a big brother.  We are adopting a kid.  And don’t ask me if he has dark skin because he doesn’t.”  Where would this prevailing theme come from?  My guess is; TV.  There are a number of organizations that advertise for assistance, or sponsorship of a third-world child during kids cartoon shows.  I understand that the intended message is probably something to the effect of “children are starving in Africa.”, but what is being perceived by the young minds, that don’t know what Africa is, is that children in need of a good home are of colour.  In the mosaic culture that we live in that is a very disturbing, not to mention inaccurate and irresponsible depiction of our society.  Fortunately, my wife and I have the opportunity to explain to our son’s friends, that a person’s home life is not determined by the colour of their skin.  It is great that there are organizations I hope the organizations producing the advertisements have taken this consequence into consideration.</p>
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